I love my fiance very much. Every women he has ever had a relationship cheated on him. He was married for 10 years and it turns out she was cheating on him for 2 years. I have NEVER EVER cheated on him. Ever!
He is my first of everything. First love, first kiss, first time. I always tell him everything. I've tried handing him my phone telling him I have nothing to hide. He says I don't have to do that and he trusts me. But then he started taking his trust back! If I want to stay home and take a nap, he asks if I'm cheating. I always look him dead in the eyes and honestly say NO. He then asks ARE YOU SURE? UM... pretty sure! He makes "Jokes" if I'm on my phone he says "Are you talking to your boyfriend?" He plays it off, but behind every joke is a bit of truth, so I don't think he fully trusts me like he said he did. It always feels like he takes his trust back.
He told me in the beginning he has Jock itch that comes and goes, but for some reason he always asks if I'm sleeping with anyone else. NO. He is my first and only. He also accused me of possibly having AIDS and bed bugs. I don't know....am I overreacting?
#1
Do you trust him back?He has insane trust issues,and if he doesnt trust you,he may be cheating on you.I’d say look through his phone since you said he can look through yours before
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#2
No man trusts a woman 100%, thats a fact. Every man uses 'the other boyfriend' line from time to time. Also a fact. Jock itch happens once in awhile. If he were getting it from you, you would have it too. If he thinks you have aids why didnt he leave? And bedbugs dont discriminate. Also a fact. Sounds to me like your man is having an affair with another woman's man. Or he is truly a basket case. Cut your losses ma'am, and forget he ever existed. You have no reason not to.
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#3
Your whole post coupd be written on a red flag. Pack your bags and run. This situation is not going to improve. It has been my experience that when he is accusing you that adamantly of cheating it is because he is the one whonis doing it and he is trying to deflect. Head for the hills and don't look back. It won't be easy, but you'll save yourslef a lot of heartache.
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#4
No. But be patient. He's only ever been cheated on. He's come to look at the little details not the big picture. If you trust him z than he'll learn to trust you. It's nobody's fault than his past partners. Love him and trust that you'll never cheat on him and be thankful that you found each other.
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#5
divorce him
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