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Soulmatennc70

Soulmatennc70

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NC mom with 3 daughters and 2 grandsons and a great husband.

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Soulmatennc70 · commented on 8 posts

over 3 years ago

"The Whole Table Went Silent": Person Calls Brother's GF A Gold Digger After She Googled The Cost Of Their Christmas Gifts
"The Whole Table Went Silent": Person Calls Brother's GF A Gold Digger After She Googled The Cost Of Their Christmas Gifts

NTA, she asked for someone to put her in her place. If he didn't handle it after being spoken to then you have every right. Your house, your gathering, your family and she was making things uncomfortable. She is a gold digger or a their. Wgich one brother?

Writer Asks Whether She’s Being “Unreasonable” For Refusing To Find A Different Job To Fit Her Boyfriend’s Expectations
Writer Asks Whether She’s Being “Unreasonable” For Refusing To Find A Different Job To Fit Her Boyfriend’s Expectations

NTA I'm that house by any means. If Panda gave out an award for being "THE A of 2022" he would be asking you to write his acceptance speech. Does he enjoy the funds you get from your advances and sales as well as any and all monies you make as a real-estate Manager? That would end, cause I would be a big old B about it. He would not eat any food that money bought, he would not watch cable that money paid for, he would not enjoy clean clothes from the tide that those funds came from. I'm petty and I'm a B like I said. Show him how much money your "no job" brings in. You know he is just jealous he has to get up n go to work. He obviously hates his career choice. That's on him not you. Secondly but MOST IMPORTANT he is trying to control you. He has known all this time you are a writer and he is trying to make you change your life now. The more he pouts the more he tries to manipulate you it shoes great disrespect. You need to think very hard about what is best for you and your life.

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almost 4 years ago

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Soulmatennc70 · commented on 3 posts

about 4 years ago

“AITA For Telling A Fellow Mother Of A Special Needs Child That My Daughter Is Not Responsible For Her Child?”
“AITA For Telling A Fellow Mother Of A Special Needs Child That My Daughter Is Not Responsible For Her Child?”

As the mother of a special needs (now adult) and a nerotypical (now adult) let me tell you, your ARE NOT the ahole. My oldest daughter truly resents me for making her the "caregiver" when I wasn't around. She needs to be able to enjoy herself and not worry. She needs to have fun and do things. Checking in with neighbor is fine but being her caregiver, no, don't let it happen.

“AITA For Not Letting Daughter Go To Music Festival After I Accidentally Saw Her Texts?”
“AITA For Not Letting Daughter Go To Music Festival After I Accidentally Saw Her Texts?”

NTA you areher parent not her friend her parent. We as parents are to protect them, guide them, keep them from hurting themselves, and sometimes discipline them. Be her parent she will thank you some day

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about 4 years ago

“AITA For Not Letting Daughter Go To Music Festival After I Accidentally Saw Her Texts?”
“AITA For Not Letting Daughter Go To Music Festival After I Accidentally Saw Her Texts?”

NTA, you're the Dad. You did what any Dad ought to do. I would do the same thing, except I would not have offered to make up any shortfall when she resells the ticket. IMO, that'd be the cost of poor judgment - and it's a LOT cheaper than a lot of other consequences she might have faced had she gone to the festival. Perhaps life changing consequences.